The Shape of Heart

Words can be like X-rays

It's like that when you say bad things to someone it will come back to you. What a big KARMA!

Almost every book in the Bible has a "fear not" in it. The enemy uses fear, but God would have us to have faith in Him. Although Job was a righteous man and would not speak evil, he opens the door through thoughts of fear for the enemy to work in his life. "For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me. I was not in safety, neither had I rest, neither was I quiet; yet trouble came" (Job 3:25-26).

In a relationship arguments, disagreement or hatred is part of LIFE as a couple. We don't need to quarrel on a small thing, but we need to speak out if we know we are on the right side.

We don't need to quarrel if we want a peaceful life. Go out and be merry, if you have problems don't think of it as a problem but a CHALLENGE.

CHALLENGE to face life. It is the life itself. It finds its way no matter what. Like the plants finds the way to grow up even in the most unproductive place like rocks.

The Shape of Heart: Independent Self Trap

The Shape of Heart: Independent Self Trap: Photo by drewpillow.com If I have fallen into the Independent Self Trap I will imagine that I am totally separate and distinct from ot...

Independent Self Trap

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If I have fallen into the Independent Self Trap I will imagine that I am totally separate and distinct from other people. I will have forgotten my interconnectedness and interdependence with others.

Traditional logic programing tells us a thing cannot be itself and something else (A is not not A).

This trap determines the kind of action that a person or organization takes when it fails to consider the people who will be deeply affected by it.

In relationships, sometimes one partner will act as if his or her actions had no effect on the other partner. For instance, one partner will spend money on something that prevents the family from buying things it needs. Or one or more of the partners will spend so much time in advancing their careers that relationships suffer in the family as a whole. Because we think of ourselves only as independent selves, one sometimes we do nothing, i.e., do not call or write a loved or friend for a few days when they are expecting it, and find out from their reactions that we are not as independent as we had thought.

Source: STANFORD.EDU UNIVERSITY PSYCHOLOGY BOOK

Fear Love...Fear Life

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first you have to define what form of love you are talking about.
love as sex should be abstained until marriage
love as God should be embraced but many prophets say and taught you must fear at the same time
love of friends is not always available
love of family should always be embraced except the worst enemies of the household are your own brothers and sisters if not mother or father.

The Shape of Heart: Letting Go

The Shape of Heart: Letting Go: Photo credit to thedarkrayne HEARTBREAK . I s more than just an emotional defeat; to some the pain is very real. At one point or a...

Letting Go

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HEARTBREAK. Is more than just an emotional defeat; to some the pain is very real. At one point or another, everyone must experience this mind numbing feeling.

LETTING GO. If you let go a little, you will have a little peace. If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace.

The Shape of Heart: Delicious Ambiguity

The Shape of Heart: Delicious Ambiguity: A young couple, in love and facing a life-changing decision. That makes a relationship more uncertain about what would happen. If the ...

Delicious Ambiguity

A young couple, in love and facing a life-changing decision. That makes a relationship more uncertain about what would happen. If the relationship continues problem will arise if they don't know how to handle.

The Shape of Heart: TRUST

The Shape of Heart: TRUST: Trust is important, but it is also dangerous. It is important because it allows us to form relationships with others and to depend on ot...

TRUST

Trust is important, but it is also dangerous. It is important because it allows us to form relationships with others and to depend on others—for love, for advice, for help with our plumbing, or what have you—especially when we know that no outside force compels them to give us such things. But trust also involves the risk that people we trust will not pull through for us; for, if there were some guarantee that they would pull through, then we would have no need to trust them. Thus, trust is also dangerous. What we risk while trusting is the loss of the things that we entrust to others, including our self-respect, perhaps, which can be shattered by the betrayal of our trust.

The Shape of Heart: Silence

Silence

The Shape of Heart: SAIL AWAY

The Shape of Heart: SAIL AWAY: This quote really struck me. It simply implies that no hindrance can STOP us to achieve our goal. If we want something work for it. St...

SAIL AWAY

This quote really struck me. It simply implies that no hindrance can STOP us to achieve our goal. If we want something work for it. Strive hard to reach that goal!

The Shape of Heart: ADMIT IT

ADMIT IT

The Shape of Heart: Holding Hands

The Shape of Heart: Holding Hands: When you hold my hands I feel safe. It's like waking up and finding there's a war on. Nothing's the way it used to be and it's diff...

Holding Hands

When you hold my hands I feel safe. It's like waking up and finding there's a war on. Nothing's the way it used to be and it's difficult to get your balance. That's why I held your hand.