FOLLOW YOUR MIND not YOUR HEART

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They say "FOLLOW YOUR HEART", because your

heart knows things your mind can't explain.

For me, never separate your mind from your heart when making relationship decisions because the purpose of the mind is to protect your heart.  Or maybe we can say "FOLLOW YOUR MIND not YOUR HEART".  Because your HEART gets a vote, but your mind gets the VETO POWER!

Now, share me your thoughts.

  

MONTH OF LOVE is HERE AGAIN

Peak Time is here again.  We all know that when love month is here it means peak time. We think of a gift to give with your love ones, friends and families.  Not only cards, roses, and chocolates but sharing the true meaning of LOVE.

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TRUE LOVE WAITS.  Do you believe that true love can wait regardless distance and time?  The right time will come to those who believe and have faith.  And have patience to wait for the person to come.  

We all know that there is NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP but there is a COMPATIBLE PARTNERSHIP that goes along with it.  Finding the right person is very hard especially if you set standards.  But is is BEST to be the right person for the one you love and start from here to be a compatible partner.

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For me I am not rushing things now.  Just to make this clearer, I came from a married relationship but it doesn't work at all.  My relationship fails not because he is not the right person, it is because we expected too much from our relationship.  And being separated for almost 8 years now, we decided on our own.

Now I am more dependent on what God wants me to do.  You may call it waiting, that every time I wait..I pray.  God knows best and I know somehow he is preparing someone to be called my COMPATIBLE PARTNER in life.

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HAPPY VALENTINES DAY

~Love isn't something you can buy nor beg. It is real and existing. You can’t touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can’t find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. It can make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don’t forget that it also can make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy.~ 

LOVE BLURS YOUR VISION

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Why does LOVE BLURS your VISION?  Is it  just like with the famous quotes we usually hear that "LOVE IS BLIND"?

Try to love somebody that you never met.  Try to fall with someone whose face you haven't seen.  Try kissing for someone whose lips you've never touched. Or hold his/her hands whose fingers you could imagine as yours.  Try making love with someone whom reflections you've seen is so blur, you climb for such imagination that he/she is there beside you.  STUPIDITY isn't it?

Then if you broke up with that someone you've never seen at all...the wound still too deep to imagine. You get the hard time to recover from it.  

How do you move on and get up from the fall?  Well I am there now...I am madly, deeply in love with this guy I haven't seen for a long time.  Sounds crazy? Yes, it is.  I honestly dumb and stupid and I finally realize that I am amazingly having an affair with someone, with no conditions, with no repercussions, with no appearance to indulge with the PAIN I am suffering now. Is this a literal proof that LOVE IS TOTALLY BLIND?  Or am I just LOSING MY VISION here?

Is this the kind of thing you see if you sit in the darkness with open eyes and never thinking what the future brings?  Am I dreaming?  Please wake me up before I drowned in my own dilemma. ~sigh~

     

     

Run Away

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Running away doesn't mean you are weak.  Same as TRAVELLING.  People who loves to travel aren't running away from LIFE.

To RUN from LOVE doesn't means you don't love that person.  Just the opposite.

People who tends to break the molds, explore the real meaning of LIFE. We need to be alone just to understand what is going on.     

HAZY RECKONING

When we love we always ask ourselves WHY ME?   Love is difficult to define, hard to understand. Yet, we like to be loved.  We always come back and be loved.

Even and after we fall, we tend to get hurt but we cannot resist love.  

If we want to forget something or someone, never hate it, or never hate him or her.  We carry everything in us, the will to forgive someone is until we want to.  Healing is a process as we speak.

Downing is not giving up.  Love lives on.  YOU LIVES ON!  The haziness will past by and YOU will live forever.

Words can be like X-rays

It's like that when you say bad things to someone it will come back to you.  What a big KARMA!

Fear Love...Fear Life

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first you have to define what form of love you are talking about. 
love as sex should be abstained until marriage
love as God should be embraced but many prophets say and taught you must fear at the same time
love of friends is not always available
love of family should always be embraced except the worst enemies of the household are your own brothers and sisters if not mother or father.

Letting Go

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HEARTBREAK.   Is more than just an emotional defeat; to some the pain is very real. At one point or another, everyone must experience this mind numbing feeling.




LETTING GO.   If you let go a little, you will have a little peace. If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace.

Holding Hands

When you hold my hands I feel safe.  It's like waking up and finding there's a war on.   Nothing's the way it used to be and it's difficult to get your balance.  That's why I held your hand.

Don't Cry