LOVE BLURS YOUR VISION

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Why does LOVE BLURS your VISION?  Is it  just like with the famous quotes we usually hear that "LOVE IS BLIND"?

Try to love somebody that you never met.  Try to fall with someone whose face you haven't seen.  Try kissing for someone whose lips you've never touched. Or hold his/her hands whose fingers you could imagine as yours.  Try making love with someone whom reflections you've seen is so blur, you climb for such imagination that he/she is there beside you.  STUPIDITY isn't it?

Then if you broke up with that someone you've never seen at all...the wound still too deep to imagine. You get the hard time to recover from it.  

How do you move on and get up from the fall?  Well I am there now...I am madly, deeply in love with this guy I haven't seen for a long time.  Sounds crazy? Yes, it is.  I honestly dumb and stupid and I finally realize that I am amazingly having an affair with someone, with no conditions, with no repercussions, with no appearance to indulge with the PAIN I am suffering now. Is this a literal proof that LOVE IS TOTALLY BLIND?  Or am I just LOSING MY VISION here?

Is this the kind of thing you see if you sit in the darkness with open eyes and never thinking what the future brings?  Am I dreaming?  Please wake me up before I drowned in my own dilemma. ~sigh~
     

     

21 comments:

  1. Hi sis! Perhaps love is blind because we don't see the flaws in the people we love. We accept them whoever and whatever they are, dba? :)

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  2. You and I are on the same boat now, seriously. I'm also trying to get over heartbreak. It's never easy. Let's try to hang in there. Better things should be in store for us, although right now, yes, our vision may be blurred because of how we feel. Let's try not to lose the faith... Take care, really! :). Shoot me an email if you want to talk about this further... I'm willing to listen.

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  3. If I feel this weird thing is it because I am afraid to lose him again? Well that will be my quest to discover.

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  4. Thanks sis Rizza and Pepper for dropping by and giving me a sort of advice. Greatly appreciated.

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  5. Technically, it doesn't really blur our vision. Meron kasing part ng brain natin na pag naiinlove, naboblock nya ung ibang senses thus making a person "blind" pagdating sa love :)

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  6. For me i don't believe in that saying... "Love is Blind" because sanay ako ng kinikilala ko muna ang babaeng gusto ko before ko sya ligawan :)...

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  7. I always saw love as partly a risk because in order for love to come in you have to lower your defenses and you are at your most vulnerable state and if something happens, it stings the most but I guess this is just one risk we need to take to find the wonders of it.

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  8. Mmmm.. ok lang un, pero ang unfair no? alam ba nya na love mo sya? hindi naman love if blind, kasi parang you're in love with the idea of love, sya lang ung target. :)

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  9. wow ... i remember my bio teacher who thought me about love through science with this concept " I LOVE FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HYPOTHALAMUS" which is somehow blur our mind when we fall in love and we can express and do things because of this certain hormones produced in our brain ...

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  10. True love is never blind...what you have here falling in love with an idea, the possibility of true love. Alas, it is hard enough to keep the flame of love burning when you are together...what more in a long-distanced love affair. Distance makes the heart....forget!

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  11. Love is Blind -- I don't buy that. however, love maybe considered as a getting-to-know process. Sometimes kasi we tend to just follow what our heart says.

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  12. Love may be very painful at times, but isn't it 'better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all'? :)

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  13. Love is Blind is an old saying; rather for me Love makes you see and feel everything!

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  14. funny to think that we became stupid because of that effin' love. but.. it would be better to think that God give us the "heart" and the "brain" to know your worth as a woman. the question like, "hanggang san ka ba kakayanin ng nararamdaman mo?" well, things are really complicated with Love. im not an expert. i know you'll cope with it, sis

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  15. I agree that love is blind, because our mothers starts loving us before she even sees us.

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  16. Love is Blind, stupid or what but we still can't stop loving even to the wrong person.been there, done that and now find me the best hubby in the whole world.

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  17. Oh, I feel sorry for you. Maybe it is true then - Love is blind. Maybe when the door is being closed for you, there's always that window waiting to be open. and if the window is locked - we can always broke that window until it opens for you - desperately.

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  18. Get ready na lang, sis! I'm sure God has better plans. So, forget the past; and be excited!

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  19. I think we are in love with the idea of being in love when we subscribe to the saying that love is blind. We see the faults very clearly but sometimes we deny it just to keep the relationship going. Be strong.

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  20. "Love is blind and lovers cannot see" is not a wrong notion but a figure of speech that can relate to reality. It's not literal but can happen in actual event like in a relationship. Some people are blinded by what they feel and they can hardly control their emotions. They seem to be accepting the complications even if mistakes are obvious.

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  21. love is not blind :) lovers are just overwhelmed with the emotion that comes with it :)

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